God gave us desire. Letting go of desire is not the way to peace or godliness. Rather desire is God's way of making sure we join the parade rather than watching from the curb. It's okay to want a bigger TV but no one ever made a movie about a man who finally bought a Volvo. So embrace your desire but ask yourself whether your desire saves lives or whether it all goes with you to the grave. The problem with your desires may be lack of meaning. Love is a common, but not the only, factor that adds meaning to otherwise boring desires.
-- Don Miller