ABANDONMENT
It is only in the state of complete abandonment and loneliness that we experience the helpful powers of our own natures…Child means evolving toward independence. This requires detachment from origins. So abandonment is a necessary condition.
-- C. G. Jung
ACTING
In Coming Up Roses, an
indie feature premiering at the Woodstock Film Festival in
September, [Bernadette Peters] plays a former musical actress,
the disturbed mother of two girls who find that singing show
tunes to lift the spirits doesn’t always work. “Yes,
another light part,” Peters says, sounding mystified, or
amused, by her choice. “And do you know what I had to do one
day? I had to find a way to hit my 15-year-old daughter.”
(The actress playing the role was 19.) “I mean really smack
her around. I’ve never hit anyone in my life! After I did
it, I felt like I was having a heart attack for a week.” For
a second it seems she may have one again, but instead the
moment resolves in a giggle. “Isn’t it a strange
profession? When you have to look for something like that
within yourself, it’s scary. And what’s also scary,” she
adds, touching the moon at her throat, “is that you find
it.”
--
Jesse Green
,
New
York
magazine
ADULT
Change the locus of trust from others to oneself. As an
adult you are not looking for someone you can trust
absolutely. You acknowledge the margins of human failing and
let go of expecting security. You then trust yourself
to be able to receive love and handle hurt, to receive
trustworthiness and handle betrayal, to receive intimacy and
handle rejection.
-- David Richo, How to
Be an Adult: A Handbook on Psychological and Spiritual
Integration
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