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When running into walls, 1) screaming or 2) resting are very viable solutions.
Stop pushing for a while.
There is immense power in recharging one's own batteries,
dropping desires,
being content with what's in front of you.
It's called Presence.
You are a very powerful pusher, yes,
but I believe you are an even greater magnetizer,
pulling the world toward you by the power of attraction.
Put away your dick and turn your pussy on!
You know I look at everything in sexual-imagery terms.
If I'm pushing against the world, or a person, and I meet resistance,
it's like hitting a knot in a pussy or asshole.
To continue pushing is to rape.
Back up, turn on the love, relax, enjoy, allow, and soon the resistance will melt away.
A battering ram in a frozen pussy is not the way to make love,
or to get what you want.
And if YOU are the wall, stop letting yourself be rammed.
Get up and walk away until another moment, when both of you can meet in love.
Rest, relax, scream, cry, whatever it takes to get present again.
You are too precious to be banging your heart against walls.
-- David Cates
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