ORPHANS

  
It is very important for families [bringing a child home from an orphanage] to absolutely and unequivocally not overstimulate the child. Your child's room should be relatively stripped of stimulation, colors, sights, sound, toys and, primarily, food. Remember, even though this seems cruel to you and me, it is all the child knows and it is what feels familiar...Do not take the child to department stores, shopping centers, grocery stores or, worst of all, amusement parks such as Disney World, where children can become completely disorganized and out of control.

-- Ronald Federici, Help for the Hopeless Child